As our two-month-old ages, we have begun to make more and more treks out. This was a lovely evening--dinner with our lovely friend Angie, a wander around a gallery, and my mother in town for the weekend.
I admit, sometimes I forget there is an other self, an Other That Isn't Mother. But I've returned to campus, I've had a few poetry get-togethers, and book club, and I realize I can meld these two facets, Life Before Maya and Life After.
Shawn, who did my poem tattoo and who is married to one of my dearest friends Meryl, and his friend Albie have formed a collaborative art project called Never Quiet Never Soft. That's Shawn below, holding Maya, and below that, Albie holding Sia (Shawn and Meryl's nephew, Casey and Ardeshir's son).
Maya, the little birdhouse visitor. I may have layers, and I may be remembering the wonder inside of me, but right now, what I love best, is finding the wonder in her. We're having a fantastic time, and I've been rubbing the edges of my thesis manuscript, finding ways for it to fit together properly, one eye on her slumbering or Ryan rocking her. I say it so many times, and I'll say it again: I love us as three.
2 comments:
Oh my, that tense-mouthed smile makes me look SO MUCH LIKE MY MOTHER! When did we all get so old? (shudder)
Let's go to the mall tomorrow and ask boys for their phone numbers... whoever gets the most buys the other a root beer float.
OK agreed, but the one with you squatting down with Sia is so much better, with your smile.
You and Shawn have the most loyal friends to help you out! So glad it all came together so well!
terry hebrank
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